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Emotional Mastery, the Dance Between Love and Anger

How well can you really manage your emotions? How do you tend to respond to situations?

A few years a go, concepts such as Emotional Intelligence (E.I) were not part of the business world, very few hired candidates based on their ability to handle emotions. Today, many companies will choose a weaker technical candidate with higher levels of emotional intelligence.

Emotional Mastery is NOT learned in a book or workshop. It is a life long evolving process. Learning how to manage your emotions is the path away from stress, fear, hate, anger towards happiness, love, peace and joy. At some level we all need to improve our mastery of ourselves, however, it simply does not happen by reading about it.

Is Anger Controlling You

shutterstock_smallI received the following via email today, and it was a reminder of this dance between our emotions of love and anger, it’s an unfortunate example of a lack of emotional mastery.

While a man was polishing his new car, his 6 yr old son picked up stone and scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child’s hand and hit it many times; not realizing he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.
When the child saw his father, with painful eyes he asked, ‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’

The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions, sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written:
The next day that man committed suicide.

How many times have we reacted to a situation, which we later regret?

Your Mental & Emotional Operating System

Our life experiences condition how we react to situations. It’s an unconscious behavior developed over your life time and it’s like a mental operating software (or virus) embedded in your mind.

Be aware of your thoughts, they become your words,
Be aware of your words; they become your actions,
Be aware of your actions; they become your habits,
Be aware of your habits they become your character,
Be aware of your character they become your personality,
Be aware of your personality it becomes your destiny. 

In the same email that was sent to me, there was a line that says:

“Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life…”
While I agree, we should choose the later, the reality is that it is easier said then done. It’s like someone saying, “Don’t worry” to you. They mean well, but the reality is that, it is not that easy to switch our emotions on and off, to not react the way we do. As much as we like to think we are in total control of our thoughts and emotions, we all do this with varying ability.

shutterstock_sssmallHowever, you can choose not to be a victim of your mental and emotional conditioning.

Emotional Mastery

Today there are tools such as PRISM Brain & Behavior Analysis that we use with our clients to help you better understand your emotional intelligence. These tools don’t fix us, but, doing the test and reviewing the results brings about greater awareness of who we really are.
Most people choose not to do inner work, to invest time and money in personal development. Be it practices like meditation or workshops. Taking responsibility of who you are is the 1st step.

In our program and event, ‘Personality Success Blueprint’, we share the 7 keys to unlock the secrets of your personality, how to assess your emotional intelligence, we also teach you processes and tools to let go of emotional baggage, overcome limiting beliefs, create a compelling guiding vision for life, and how to better set and achieve goals and objectives to keep life in balance while working towards being the best you can be.

Beejal Parmar
Speaker, Author, Personality Expert, Results Coach, Mastermind Facilitator
& Creator of ‘Personality Success Blueprint’ program and event:

Create a blueprint for success based on your unique personality…
PLUS Unleash your potential by overcoming emotional baggage and
overcoming limiting beliefs



Create A Blueprint For Success Based On Your Unique Personality Workshop

It is true that at some level, we all want to achieve greater success and ultimately be happy with our efforts and in our lives; yet, the reality is that a large majority of career professionals, executives and entrepreneurs struggle to achieve the very thing they pursue and work so hard for. Many of them are very confused about their direction in life, unclear about who they are, and have found life to have become unbalanced, where only a few areas of their lives are working well for them and other equally important areas of life are failing for them. The result is many people are finding themselves feeling frustrated, confused, de-motivated and stressed.

Success, most people believe comes from having a great idea, a plan and to work hard at achieving it, however after having studied this formula, I found an inherent flaw in the success formula, the missing “P”. After a decade of struggle and finding myself dead broke, with a broken moral, low self esteem and without direction, it was by chance, or you could say fate, that I stumbled across what I call as the missing ‘P’ in success- Personality. I discovered the importance of understanding one’s personality through both personal experience and working with entrepreneurs all over the world, and this simple step of understanding my personality shifted my world around.

Today I live a great lifestyle, with my family, travelling around the world, running 3 organizations with over 400 employees from my laptop and cell phone, giving me the opportunity to help people all over the world create their blueprint for success based on their personality with my workshops and online programs.

I am of firm conviction that success comes easier when one selects an opportunity that is in alignment with their unique personality- with who they uniquely are. However in addition to understanding who you are, it is vital to have a clear vision of success in all dynamics of your life, have a clearly defined mission and a drive to see your success materialize. It is also equally important to let go of all the past baggage, and limitations that hold you back from succeeding. One must create a blueprint that plots the milestones between where he is now and where he wants to be, set a clear direction versus blindly moving through life.

Screen Shot 2014-01-09 at 12.33.10 PMTo help people achieve this, I created the ‘Personality Success Blueprint’ program and event.

The upcoming event is going to be held on the 1st of February in Bangalore, India.

During the event, I share the 7 keys to unlocking the potential of your personality. I also teach the participants how to create a powerful guiding future vision and how to better prioritize efforts to create more balance and harmony. I also teach them how to let go of emotional baggage and limiting beliefs that becomes an integral part of our personality and holds us back.

While a lot of people think they can do this type of work at home, by themselves, I have found that you have to get away, be immersed in a different environment and experience to give yourself the time to do this inner work.

Beejal Parmar
Speaker, Author, Personality Expert, Results Coach, Mastermind Facilitator
& Creator of ‘Personality Success Blueprint’ program and event:

Create a BLUEPRINT for SUCCESS based on your UNIQUE personality…
PLUS unleash your potential by letting go of emotional baggage and
overcoming limiting beliefs…
PLUS learn to create a compelling guiding vision for your life and select the right mission towards a your desired future while keeping life better balanced!
Online program and event: http://personalitysuccessblueprint.com