Category Archives: Success

From Self Awareness To Vision Board

If you have ever read a book on personal development, or watched a video or been to a seminar, you are no stranger to the concept of visualizing what you want, or creating a vision board for what you want in life or how you want your life to be.man with crystal ball

In the new thought and personal development movement, this is commonly referred to as the ‘Law of Attraction’. Despite such teaching, many people fail to materialize the very things they want in life.

Self-Awareness or The Lack Of It…

While there are a myriad of reasons why one does not manifest what one desires, one very fundamental reason is a lack of self-awareness. Think about this, if you don’t really know yourself, how can you design the right future for yourself?

Most people think they know themselves, however when faced with deeper introspective questions, they underestimate how tough it is to answer a bunch of questions about themselves. You’d think if there is any topic you should be an expert at its yourself… right? …. wrong!

At the core of personal development is a continual process of self-awareness. The concept and the process in itself require us to dive deep into the layers of our own consciousness. People usually find self-awareness one of the most challenging things they have to do in personal development. The deeper you go into the mind, the more energy is used up, because the brain is a muscle that is getting exercised. However, the fatigue comes when the conscious mind tries to go deeper and deeper into the subconscious mind, going further back in time to memories long forgotten to unravel the layers surrounding those memories to work past it to make better decisions in your present life.

In the Vedas, it mentions in roundabout ways, that the purpose of life or the ultimate success comes from self-mastery that is mastery over one’s emotions and one’s mind. While most Eastern and Western guru’s also say the same kind of thing, what they don’t quote or emphasize as much is that self-mastery can ONLY come from self-awareness!

Knowing yourself is an ongoing journey, but one well worth your introspection to create a better life for yourself. The deeper the questions, the tougher it gets. However,the more you do it, the easier your mind gives up the answers.

Underlying the Personality Success Blueprint program was my studying Yoga Vasistha, the Yoga taught to Rama by Maharishi Vasistha. I adopted the teaching and knowledge to be in alignment with other scriptures like “know thy self” in the bible for example. Where religions overlap is where the truth exists.

Life Vision Based On Who You Really Are…

Moonlight reflectionOnce you develop greater self-awareness, through a program like Personality Smart (which is one of the modules of Personality Success Blueprint), you can create a life vision based on who you are. The vision must be clear and compelling, it should feel like watching a trailer for a movie, and when you read your vision back, it should leave you feeling like you really want to see the movie. That movie, is your life, and you have the leading role.

My question to you is, how can you design a future for yourself, if your awareness of who you are is not clear? Take time to dive deep into your own mind, body and spirit and gain clarity on who you are so you can act towards being the best version of yourself. Do not be discouraged by the journey to self discovery, in fact embrace it and make it a passion.

In invite you to dive deep into your own mind, master it, and master your life.

Dream, Create, Live… Your True Life Adventure,

Beejal Parmar
Create your blueprint for success based on who you really are.
Click here to visit PersonalitySuccessBlueprint.com

Emotional Mastery, the Dance Between Love and Anger

How well can you really manage your emotions? How do you tend to respond to situations?

A few years a go, concepts such as Emotional Intelligence (E.I) were not part of the business world, very few hired candidates based on their ability to handle emotions. Today, many companies will choose a weaker technical candidate with higher levels of emotional intelligence.

Emotional Mastery is NOT learned in a book or workshop. It is a life long evolving process. Learning how to manage your emotions is the path away from stress, fear, hate, anger towards happiness, love, peace and joy. At some level we all need to improve our mastery of ourselves, however, it simply does not happen by reading about it.

Is Anger Controlling You

shutterstock_smallI received the following via email today, and it was a reminder of this dance between our emotions of love and anger, it’s an unfortunate example of a lack of emotional mastery.

While a man was polishing his new car, his 6 yr old son picked up stone and scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child’s hand and hit it many times; not realizing he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.
When the child saw his father, with painful eyes he asked, ‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’

The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions, sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written:
‘LOVE YOU DAD’.
The next day that man committed suicide.

How many times have we reacted to a situation, which we later regret?

Your Mental & Emotional Operating System

Our life experiences condition how we react to situations. It’s an unconscious behavior developed over your life time and it’s like a mental operating software (or virus) embedded in your mind.

Be aware of your thoughts, they become your words,
Be aware of your words; they become your actions,
Be aware of your actions; they become your habits,
Be aware of your habits they become your character,
Be aware of your character they become your personality,
Be aware of your personality it becomes your destiny. 

In the same email that was sent to me, there was a line that says:

“Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life…”
While I agree, we should choose the later, the reality is that it is easier said then done. It’s like someone saying, “Don’t worry” to you. They mean well, but the reality is that, it is not that easy to switch our emotions on and off, to not react the way we do. As much as we like to think we are in total control of our thoughts and emotions, we all do this with varying ability.

shutterstock_sssmallHowever, you can choose not to be a victim of your mental and emotional conditioning.

Emotional Mastery

Today there are tools such as PRISM Brain & Behavior Analysis that we use with our clients to help you better understand your emotional intelligence. These tools don’t fix us, but, doing the test and reviewing the results brings about greater awareness of who we really are.
Most people choose not to do inner work, to invest time and money in personal development. Be it practices like meditation or workshops. Taking responsibility of who you are is the 1st step.

In our program and event, ‘Personality Success Blueprint’, we share the 7 keys to unlock the secrets of your personality, how to assess your emotional intelligence, we also teach you processes and tools to let go of emotional baggage, overcome limiting beliefs, create a compelling guiding vision for life, and how to better set and achieve goals and objectives to keep life in balance while working towards being the best you can be.

Beejal Parmar
Speaker, Author, Personality Expert, Results Coach, Mastermind Facilitator
& Creator of ‘Personality Success Blueprint’ program and event:

Create a blueprint for success based on your unique personality…
PLUS Unleash your potential by overcoming emotional baggage and
overcoming limiting beliefs

http://personalitysuccessblueprint.com/

 

Create A Blueprint For Success Based On Your Unique Personality Workshop

It is true that at some level, we all want to achieve greater success and ultimately be happy with our efforts and in our lives; yet, the reality is that a large majority of career professionals, executives and entrepreneurs struggle to achieve the very thing they pursue and work so hard for. Many of them are very confused about their direction in life, unclear about who they are, and have found life to have become unbalanced, where only a few areas of their lives are working well for them and other equally important areas of life are failing for them. The result is many people are finding themselves feeling frustrated, confused, de-motivated and stressed.

Success, most people believe comes from having a great idea, a plan and to work hard at achieving it, however after having studied this formula, I found an inherent flaw in the success formula, the missing “P”. After a decade of struggle and finding myself dead broke, with a broken moral, low self esteem and without direction, it was by chance, or you could say fate, that I stumbled across what I call as the missing ‘P’ in success- Personality. I discovered the importance of understanding one’s personality through both personal experience and working with entrepreneurs all over the world, and this simple step of understanding my personality shifted my world around.

Today I live a great lifestyle, with my family, travelling around the world, running 3 organizations with over 400 employees from my laptop and cell phone, giving me the opportunity to help people all over the world create their blueprint for success based on their personality with my workshops and online programs.

I am of firm conviction that success comes easier when one selects an opportunity that is in alignment with their unique personality- with who they uniquely are. However in addition to understanding who you are, it is vital to have a clear vision of success in all dynamics of your life, have a clearly defined mission and a drive to see your success materialize. It is also equally important to let go of all the past baggage, and limitations that hold you back from succeeding. One must create a blueprint that plots the milestones between where he is now and where he wants to be, set a clear direction versus blindly moving through life.

Screen Shot 2014-01-09 at 12.33.10 PMTo help people achieve this, I created the ‘Personality Success Blueprint’ program and event.

The upcoming event is going to be held on the 1st of February in Bangalore, India.

During the event, I share the 7 keys to unlocking the potential of your personality. I also teach the participants how to create a powerful guiding future vision and how to better prioritize efforts to create more balance and harmony. I also teach them how to let go of emotional baggage and limiting beliefs that becomes an integral part of our personality and holds us back.

While a lot of people think they can do this type of work at home, by themselves, I have found that you have to get away, be immersed in a different environment and experience to give yourself the time to do this inner work.

Beejal Parmar
Speaker, Author, Personality Expert, Results Coach, Mastermind Facilitator
& Creator of ‘Personality Success Blueprint’ program and event:

Create a BLUEPRINT for SUCCESS based on your UNIQUE personality…
PLUS unleash your potential by letting go of emotional baggage and
overcoming limiting beliefs…
PLUS learn to create a compelling guiding vision for your life and select the right mission towards a your desired future while keeping life better balanced!
Online program and event: http://personalitysuccessblueprint.com

Know Your Value

The following video has been compiled over an inspirational speech by Eric Thomas, that envisages the importance of discovering your value as a unique gift on earth, as your greatest strength.

Beejal Parmar.

Emotional Intelligence and Leadership

A Study at Harvard showed that customers come back to people they like. 80% of what brings them back is the personality of the person, and 20% is the skill. In emotional intelligence it has been proven that the mood of the leader will determine the mood of the organization. Your mood really matters at work and in business!

Beejal Parmar.

Living a Life of Success- Living Beyond Fear.

Go live your life without fear, because fear is what holds us back from our dreams.
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

Beejal Parmar

“Self Belief Is the KEY to Success!”- Will Smith

In the following video is of top actor and motivational speaker Will Smith sharing his view on why he believes self belief is the most important factor in overcoming a fear of failure and achieving your dreams in life.

“I want to represent an idea, I want to represent possibility, I want to represent magic”

“You decide what is going to be, who you are going to be, how you are going to do it, just decide”

“We are who we choose to be”

Beejal Parmar